The parents and sister of writer Han Liangjing have passed away for more than 10 years, making her feel that life is unpredictable. The Dutch man is 10 years old and has no children. She admitted: "I need to face one's old age."

So she made friends, saw the nursing home where she lived in the future, and wrote a good time. She emphasized: "I don't want to drag others down."

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After seeing the death of her people, she found that she was becoming more mature. "I live more in the present." After her parents left, she also changed her writing direction and focused on "daily" theme. "I write diet and seasons, because we are engaged in daily life. How precious it is, how can we not face every day well?"

She was born in a happy family. My father is in the gravel business and my mother is a teacher. "He often takes us to the restaurant for a meal. He knows how to eat, and points to the dishes and tells how it tastes good and how to cook." In addition, there is a grandmother who knows how to cook. She and her sister Han Lianglu are influenced by their eyes and have studied food.

I signed a consultation book before marriage, and Hang

Korean good-natured English is very good. In order to continue practicing English, in 1998, I met through the Internet and met in my Dutch husband who taught at university. "We were very interested in each other. After a meeting, I found that they were very suitable for each other and discussed whether they could transform from friendship to relationships that were far away."

At that time, she worked in translation and writing, and had free time. "When she dated, she flew to the Netherlands three times a year, staying for one month at a time." She was tired of flying and wanted to settle down, and the two discussed getting married.

"When it comes to marriage, I am very practical. We are mature men and women, so we write agreements, distribution and reunions of property first. She said: "Although I don't want to divorce, life is difficult. It is better to explain it clearly in advance."

"Marriage is about finding a conversation. Don't have too much difference in value and can be with you." In this way, Korean dear friends have lived in the Netherlands for more than 10 years. After her husband retired in 2013, they moved back to Taiwan to settle down and returned to their native countryside. She continued to write and host broadcast programs.

The pain of my mother has been difficult to get out of

. Korean memory is a fat girl who was bullied at school. Therefore, she thought that life was difficult to achieve perfection, but her growth process was smooth until her mother was diagnosed with cancer and suddenly passed away, which gave her many insights into life.

"This is the first time I have encountered a very strong separation, especially when she left suddenly." At that time, she lived in Holland. After hearing the news that her mother was cancer, she immediately returned to Taiwan to take care of her. "The doctor said she still has half a year of life." Unexpectedly, during a routine inspection, her mother left like this, "I couldn't accept it at that time."

"That was the most heartbreaking time in my life." She said lonely, "It was 2003. The SARS that happened that year had already hurt people and encountered this again." It took her a long time to get out of her mother's pain. "Recently, I think it may be that her soul doesn't want to suffer, so she left so quickly."

My father is not too late to see you again

However, the biggest regret in my daughter's heart was that she could not say goodbye to her mother. "I didn't say anything to her ears when she finally got to know her. I want to help me!"

In the summer of 2011, her 87-year-old father had a heart attack, and she returned to Taiwan and stayed with her father. "At that time, the doctor said that my father could support him for another half a year to one year." Unexpectedly, the next January, the situation broke out on the day of the routine inspection and he left.

She still couldn't say goodbye, "This is something I always think is a pity." Later, a relative told her that her father "can't even urinate, and it's difficult to walk." The relative told her father: "If you live like this, it's better not to live."

Hearing this, she knew that this was her father's choice, "I'm worried."

The early death of her sister made her understand that she was unpredictable

The death of her sister Han Lianglu made her difficult to accept, "She really left too early, she was only 56 years old!" At that time, she had already returned to Taiwan to settle down, and her sister was with her every day when she was sick. "I know she is ready to accept her situation, but she is embarrassed by her husband and cannot accompany him in her future life."

3 degrees and the death of a person, Korean memory will accept that life is unpredictable. "When my mother passed away, I knew that life was unpredictable, but I didn't accept it; my father left because he didn't want to live anymore. I seemed to be able to accept it, but I was not sure; I knew that life was unpredictable, so I accepted daily life more."

So, her book is closer to life. For example, the recently published new book "Diet but Home-Cooked Cuisine", which is based on Taiwanese farming. For example, January is the season for cabbage, so she cooks cabbage. "There are many melons in summer, so I write melons and spicy tofu. Eating spicy food tonifying the stomach and can also relieve moisture and sweating."

She emphasized: "These are all the health care left by our ancestors. I just eat according to the times. This is a natural way." She quoted American cuisine master Ferry Seo as saying: "Since you have to eat alive, you have to eat elegantly and eat with relish."

As a writer, Korean dear believe that she is not a successful person in society. "Why do people have to be divided into Rushe and Winner? Life should not be divided into wins.. "After 50 years old, she is very satisfied with her current self and life. "We must love ourselves first, be happy, and the talents around us will be happy!"

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