In marriage, if one day you wake up and find someone you are the one who is the most familiar and deeply loved by you, and you are stealing food on your back, would you choose to turn away or be original? But after regaining the situation, can the couple really reconcile as before, and there is no slight cumbersome in their hearts? "Social Lab Social Laboratory" tracks the Internet voice performance of the topic "Is an affair absurd" in the past three months through the "OpView Social Word of Mouth Database", which will help you understand the hot topic focus and opinions of male and female netizens.

How to resolve an affair with your spouse? Compared to men, "Diet to get married!" Women should consider children more often,

It can be found in the quantity that most male and female netizens always feel unfair about the topic of "spouse affair", and most of them say, "Diet to get married directly!" Among them, male netizens express more directly, "Die to get married if you wear a green hat, don't talk too much", or mention "It's not a mistake to not love, it's a mistake to get married without divorce", etc., and think that no matter how much you recover, it's useless; female netizens are more from the consideration of "self and children". They believe that facing an affair with her husband should not compromise, nor should they misunderstand the mistakes.

"Think about what to do next?" Netizens suggest that they can ask for consultation on the third party

On the other hand, compared to "original spouse affair", there is also a group of netizens who insisted on "think about what to do next?" Although it is difficult to face an affair, they can still try to ask for professional consultation on the third party, or communicate rationally with the other party and clear the reasons for the relationship between husband and wife, but some people are worried that "the knot in their hearts cannot be eliminated", which shows that "spouse affair" is one of the difficult pains for men and women. In addition, many female netizens are more concerned about the fact that when the current rape has been eliminated (the rape is decriminalized), they also need to pay attention to their own property and rights first.

Some people think that in a relationship, guilt and secrets can only be a matter of one's conscience; but some people still try to recover their love that is about to die. "Affair" is a sharp blade that will be planned to pass the heart of the man I once loved the most. Whether it is divorced or not, not everyone has the courage to face this scar. If you don’t like it, you can communicate more rationally and friendlyly so that the wound can be better cured.

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